A to Z Blogging Challenge "Verse of the Year"

“Verse of the Year”

by Shelly Burke, Editor, Nebraska Family Times

Do you ever get discouraged in your work, whatever it may be?

I get discouraged as a mom when my kids have troubles, don’t listen to what Tim and I say or are having a hard time.

I get discouraged as a “home manager” when (like today) there is laundry to be done, the kitchen is a mess, and clutter threatens to take over (if whatever smells funny in the refrigerator doesn’t take over first!).

I get discouraged as a business owner when I’m behind on updating files, my computer is sllloowwwww and the checks are not coming in (but the bills, of course, are!).  

I get discouraged as a child of God when I know I haven’t acted as His child should.

As always, when discouraged, the best place to look for encouragement is the Bible. Colossians 3:23-24 has always been one of my favorites, and I decided to make it the “verse of the year” personally, and I’ve challenged Nebraska Family Times readers to do the same. Tracy, who does the graphic art for the paper, laid out the verse so it can be cut out and hung on bulletin boards, the refrigerator, or even your bathroom mirror—and I’ve put it all three places!

Colossians 3:23-24 reads, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance for the Lord as your reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving.”

The verse always encourages me. I ask the Lord to guide me in whatever I am doing and I pray every day that He will walk with me in whatever I do—as a mom, home manager, business owner and most importantly, child of God. I listen for His “still, small voice” to guide me, and I look to His word for direction. I know that I do not always follow and do His will and I imagine that there are many times He is rolling His eyes at me and my actions.

But…I know that He is walking with me and guiding me…I just need to listen. I know that He forgives me for not doing what He wants me to do, and for doing what He does not want me to do.

I know that I am working for Him, and that kids’ actions, the state of mess in my home, and the other frustrations are just part of living here on earth. I can be sure that when I am working for Him, everything will work out. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow…and maybe not while I live on this earth. But when I believe in Him, believe that He sent His Son to forgive my sins, the little discouragements in my life just do not seem important. They are part of doing His work and serving Him. I will receive an inheritance from Him—and eternal inheritance--and that is what matters.

And then I resolve to work with all my heart at being a mom, home manager, women, business owner, and child of God, because in whatever I do—even the seemingly insignificant tasks like cleaning the refrigerator—I am serving the Lord.

Thank You, Lord, for the encouragement that You give through Your Word. Please lead and guide me as I strive to do Your will. Amen.

I’m also blogging at Home is Where the Mom Is.

Today’s post gives suggestions for “Instilling Values in Your Kids.”

Below  is the graphic of the verse of the year; cut it out and put it where you’ll be able to see it when you are discouraged!

A to Z Blogging Challenge "Lifting Up in Prayer"

Lifting Up in Prayer

By Shelly Burke, Editor and Publisher, Nebraska Family Times

As I read through my prayer list this morning, I noticed how long the list has gotten over the last few months. It’s just one of those times in life where it seems I know a lot of people who are experiencing heartache, stress, or sorrow of one kind or another. Whether I know them personally or not, I feel sadness for their circumstances and what they are experiencing. 

My prayers are for a wide variety of people—some I’ve known for years and some I have never met but know of their need for healing through others. They include:

An 11 month-old with leukemia who just had a stem-cell transplant.

A 7^th grader, diagnosed in November with bone cancer, who is facing an extensive surgery to remove the tumor from his leg, and then a long recovery.

The brother of a friend, who, after four years fighting cancer, recently had a stem-cell transplant.

One of our pastors who has been unable to work for several months due to various health issues.

A friend’s daughter, whose progressive disease is taking more and more of her abilities from her.

A lady who is facing the death of her mother, and a couple facing the loss of their son.

Another friend whose father is experiencing many health problems.

My elderly grandparents, who, after many years of good health, have experienced broken bones, surgeries, and other serious health issues in the last year.

And then I looked at my list of those for whom I pray God’s peace and comfort. Their situations are all very different…yet they are all grieving.

A friend whose daughter was killed in an accident just a few months after her mother died.

Another friend whose husband was killed in an accident.  

Two more friends whose husbands died very unexpectedly.

A friend whose sister and grandmother died within just a few months of each other.

The families of my private-duty nursing patients. My patients were both very disabled and died within days of each other a year ago this month.

Several families who experienced the death of a loved one recently, after long battles with various diseases.

A family who, within a few days, lost two loved ones; one death was expected and one was very sudden and unexpected. One friend lost his brother and his wife.

Some on my list will experience the full restoration of their health, through God’s grace and healing. Although I am confident God can provide full healing to anyone, according to His will, it seems that some I pray for are nearing the end of their earthly lives, and will only be healed in heaven.

Several of those who have experienced the death of a loved one have shared how God has comforted them; some are comforted in knowing that their loved ones are out of pain and in the presence of God now. But the loss of a loved one leaves a hole in many lives no matter what the circumstances.

I have been praying with a feeling of sadness for those on my list who are facing long recoveries or will not be healed and for those who are learning to live without a loved one and facing other challenges and heartaches.  

This morning, though, I realized that none of us will ever experience full health, or total happiness, while here on earth. From the moment sin entered the world, the perfection of God’s creation was gone. As Romans 6:23 tells us, “The wages of sin is death.” As sad and hopeless as that sounds, the verse goes on to say, “but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

What a blessing! What reassurance! Anyone who accepts God’s offer of eternal life—including every single person on my prayer list who has accepted His offer of forgiveness—will experience full healing, complete health, and total comfort from every heartache when they get to heaven!

In Philippians, Paul tells us, “Our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, Who, by the power that enables Him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like His glorious body.” (Phil. 3:20-21). So even if the ones we pray for are not healed on earth, they will be transformed in heaven!

And Revelation tells us that in heaven, God “will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain…” (Rev. 21:4) With our glorious, perfect bodies, we will also be completely filled with joy!

What wonderful reassurance that is, to all of us who believe—especially those who are sick, or mourning or in pain. Here on earth we will never be free of all illness or sorrow…but we know that in heaven each and every one of us will be free from all illness, pain and sorrow.

Lord, I continue to pray for healing and comfort for those I know who are sick or suffering in body, mind, or spirit. I thank You so much for Your reassurance of the joy and perfection that awaits us in heaven, and pray that You will remind everyone – on my prayer list, and on every prayer list! – of Your love and promises!

I’m also blogging at Home is Where the Mom Is

Today my post is titled “Family Shorthand—How R U?”

A to Z Blogging Challenge "Talents and Tasks"

“Talents and Tasks”

By Shelly Burke, Nebraska Family Times Publisher and Editor

“Bezalel and Oholiab and every craftsman in whom the Lord has put skill and intelligence to know how to do any work in the construction of the sanctuary shall work in accordance with what the Lord has commanded. And Moses called Bezalel and Oholiab and every craftsman in whose mind the Lord had put skill, everyone whose heart stirred him up to come to do the work.” Exodus 36:1-2

“Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of service, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God Who empowers them all in everyone…for just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, tough many are one body, so it is with Christ.” 1 Corin. 12:4-6, 12

A few months ago our LWML circle met to make the final arrangements for our church’s annual salad luncheon. As the chairwoman went through the list of tasks that needed to be done the last few days before the luncheon and on that day, I heard the following comments:

“I have nerve damage in my fingers so I can’t carry anything; I can move them in hot water so I can wash dishes.”

“It’s hard for me to walk but I can sit and pour coffee.”

“I have to leave by noon so I can watch my kids at the track meet, but I will come early and set up.”

“I used to work as a clerk so don’t mind taking money.”

“I like to see all the people who come; I’ll help them find a place at the tables and carry their food for them.”

“I’m free all day—let me know when you need help.”

I said, “This is my first year helping, so I’ll be here and you tell me what needs to be done!”

Several things struck me:

• People didn’t focus on their limitations, but looked beyond them to the tasks they could do.
• Everyone at the meeting had different skills and abilities, different things they preferred to do, different things they didn’t like to do—and there was a task that fit every preference.
• By the end of the evening all of the tasks, down to who would bring empty containers for leftover salads, were filled.
• Every single task was necessary to making the event a success.

The task of bringing containers for leftovers after the salad luncheon was as important as the task of setting up the tables, which was as important and making phone calls to remind people to bring the salads and actually making salads! Without all of the tasks being done and all of the people involved using their talents (despite their limitations), it would not have been a success.

In the verses at the beginning of this devotion the task was to build the tabernacle, the ark of the covenant, the altar for burnt offerings, and everything the Israelites would use for worship and sacrifice. The specifications for these items takes several chapters. There must have been hundreds if not thousands of people working, and they all had their own gifts and talents and worked according to their own specific gifts and talents.

We don’t have to worship in a tabernacle or sacrifice animals any more, thanks to God sending Jesus as a sacrifice to die for us and take away all of our sins.  But God still wants us to be a part of building his “church”—the body of those who believe in Him.

Just as the human body is made up of many parts, all of which (ideally) function together,  the church body is made up of many parts, all necessary for the church body to function in spreading God’s love and His Word and message of sin, grace, and forgiveness. He calls us to, instead of focusing on our shortcomings and limitations, focus on our sills and the things we can do.

"Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms." 1 Peter 4:10

God calls all of us to use the skills and talents He has given us. Romans 14:12 tells us that we each will be called to give an account of what we did here on earth, to God. I want to tell Him that I made use of my gifts, despite my limitations. Don’t you want to say the same thing?

What gifts and talents can you use for God?

Lord, thank you for the unique gifts and talents You have given to me. Please lead and guide me and give me opportunities to use my gifts for Your glory. Amen. 

(I'm also blogging at Home is Where the Mom Iscom. 

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A to Z Blogging Challenge "Shamrocks and Faith"

 "Shamrocks and Faith"

I bought a shamrock plant several years ago. I have a rather brown thumb so wasn’t too surprised when a few months later the individual stems and leaves began to turn brown and shrivel up. Despite my brown thumb, I really hate to throw plants away—just in case they might have a little life in them. So I continued to water my dead-looking plant and left it in the sun by my kitchen sink—just in case there was a little life left.

A few weeks later I glanced at my shamrock and was surprised to see a single green stem poking through all the dead leaves and stems. Within a few more days the pot was full of green stems and leaves again!

This pattern repeated itself several times over the last few years—the plant would go from green and full to brown and empty. The last time everything turned brown was over a month ago. When I cleaned the kitchen last week I thought about throwing the plant out—surely it wouldn’t come back after months of looking so brown. Yet I decided to give it one more chance and wait a week or two to throw it out.

Then, several days ago, it happened again—there was a tiny leaf of green sticking through the brown. Now, a few days later, the pot is almost full of those distinctive green leaves yet again.

As I was looking back at my prayer journal for this year, I realized that more than a few of my prayers were answered as I asked for them to be answered. But from the dates in the journal, I saw that I often prayed for weeks or even months—and even when my prayers were not being answered, I continued to pray and read my Bible and go to church.

And just like the shamrock plant, coming to life long after I thought it was dead, my prayers were answered as well.

As I thought about the shamrock plant, I realized that my life is sometimes like it. Even when my life—or issues in my life—seem brown, dead, and hopeless, I continue to pray to the Lord and wait for him to answer my prayers. I try to keep the faith—by reading my Bible, going to church, and partaking of Holy Communion to strengthen my faith.

I know God is always working, sometimes in the light of day, other times beneath the surface where I can’t see Him…but I continue to pray and have faith, knowing that an answer WILL shoot up.

Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous, and do not be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it and it will be yours. Mark 11:24

  

Dear Lord, I thank you so much that I know that I can always count on You—You will always answer my prayers. Please give me patience and faith, even when it seems there is no hope. Amen.

Due to lack of time (it’s prom night and I’m on my way

to take pictures!) I’m posting the same entry in both blogs:

www.nebraskafamilytimes.blogspot.com and www.achristianmomsguide.blogspot.com.

My other entry was going to be titled “Sunday, a Day of Rest’, and give

pointers I’ve used to make Sunday my day of rest.

That post will appear one day next week.

Have a great weekend! God’s blessings!

A to Z Blogging Challenge "Are You a Radio Skipper?"

Are you a Radio Skipper?

By Shelly Burke

I am a radio skipper. I listen to a station for a few seconds (or less) and change the station if I don’t immediately recognize and like the song. I automatically skip if it’s a commercial, too. I can detect any word even distantly related to sports in a millisecond, and again, the station is changed immediately. (You might be glad to hear that this only happens when I’m driving in wide open spaces of Nebraska, and don’t worry—the radio control is on my steering wheel so I don’t need to look away from the road as I’m radio skipping!) It’s a wonder I don’t get “skipping” thumb!

When I do hear a familiar song—especially if it’s from the 80’s--I listen (and often sing along. Sometimes loudly.).

My skipping habit drives my kids crazy! “How can you even tell what song is playing?” they often ask. And I give that “all-purpose” mom answer—“Just because I know.”

But once in awhile their ears detect familiarity in the few notes they hear before I change the station, and they say, “That’s a good song—switch back!” I always go back per their request…and believe it or not, many times when I actually listen to the song, I like it!

Are you a Bible skipper? Do you open your Bible, look at the verse on which your eye lands, and immediately turn to another page if you don’t recognize the verse, or if your eyes land on a word like “sacrifice” or “thou shall not”? Do you prefer to read comfortable and familiar passages?

Any time you read God’s Word, you will benefit from it. However, “Bible skipping” has its problems, just like “radio skipping” does.

By turning the page when you read a certain word or phrase, you’re missing out on God’s Word. Every single word in the Bible is His Word and is there for a purpose—even if the lesson isn’t one you particularly want to learn or read at that time.

“All scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness so that the man {and woman!} of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.” 2 Timothy 3:16

Next time you are tempted to skip, stay on that page. Read the whole verse, or even the whole chapter. See what God is telling you. You might very well learn a lesson He wants you to learn or find a new “favorite.”

Have you ever listened to a song over and over again before you finally realized what a certain word or phrase was? The same thing can happen when you read the Bible—after reading a verse or chapter over and over you might suddenly gain new insight as to what it means or how you can apply it to your life.

I often learn something new when I reread something I’ve already read many times. It’s ok to stay on a familiar “station” in the Bible, but read the verses or chapter before and after the words which are familiar with you—you’re sure to learn more when you know the context of the verse or verses by reading what comes before and after. Ask God what message He wants you to get from His message that particular day.

How can you break your habit of “Bible skipping”?

• Read a Chronological Bible, which presents events of the Bible in the order in which they occurred.
• Follow another reading plan; type “Read the Bible in a Year” into your search engine and you’ll get many plans to choose from.
• Study a word, person, or book of the Bible in depth.
• Read the chapter of Proverbs corresponding to the date.

The more I read and study the Bible, the more I enjoy doing so and the more I learn.  I pray that you will find the same to be true in your life.

Paul says to Timothy (and therefore to us), “Reflect on what I am saying, for the Lord will give you insight into all of this.” 2 Timothy 2:7

 Dear Lord, thank you for giving us Your Word, the Bible. Please give me the urge to read, study, and learn from it, and help me to discern Your messages and how they apply to my life. Amen. 

I am also blogging at Home is Where the Mom Is

Today’s entry tells you how to “Break the Shopping Rules.”

A to Z Blogging Challenge "Not Quite Finished"

"Not Quite Finished"

It’s what I refer to as “paper week,” the week I “put the paper together”—find and write all the articles that will be printed in the next issue of the Nebraska Family Times. I’ve been the editor and publisher of the paper for 3 ½ years; it was started by a lady in Norfolk who became ill and could not continue publishing.

One of the reasons I love being the editor and publisher of the Nebraska Family Times is that I enjoy the wide variety of tasks involved. I especially enjoy doing research and finding new websites or authors whose work I can print in the paper. Every month as I begin looking for articles, I pray that I will find articles that will touch the hearts of readers, encourage them, teach them something they’ve wanted to learn about, and bring them closer to the Lord.

In every issue I try to print a variety of articles about Bible Study, families, finance, marriage, and issues parents face when their kids are at different ages and stages. One of my goals is to find and print articles that give readers a different way to view a problem or a solution, other than what they’ve probably read or heard before. I also print news from Nebraska and nationally, from a Christian point of view. I get e-mails daily or weekly from several organizations, websites, and blogs. If I think I might be able to use them in the paper I put them in an e-mail folder for that month; during “putting the paper together” week I decide which ones I’d like to use and request permission as necessary.

Before I print articles I request permission from the author. It’s usually fairly easy to find their contact information but once in awhile it’s impossible to. That’s especially disappointing when it’s an article I really want to print. Several authors have given me permission to reprint anything they write. I try to “discover” a few new authors/blogs/websites every month to keep the material in the paper fresh and interesting. It’s amazing how much great information there is on the internet!

I try to find articles of varying lengths; I was surprised to find that it’s a lot easier to find long articles than short ones. I have several columnists who write for the paper every month or almost every month; I’m blessed to be able to count on them for good material every month.

One of the most challenging articles to find is the main one on the front page. The title of that article is the first thing that people see when they see the paper. The lady who owned the paper before I did gave me some good advice; “Picture the front page of the paper in your head as you’re choosing the articles. Will people see the titles and be interested enough to pick the paper up and read it? How will the graphics look?”  I always know when I’ve found an article that would work for the front page; I get a gut feeling of excitement. It’s a great feeling, especially if I’ve been looking for awhile!

These pictures and the ones below show
printing at the Wayne Herald.

For the first year or so that I published the paper, it took me 4 or 5 days, with late nights, to get everything put together. After the first few months I made myself a checksheet to better keep track of what articles I need. After 3 ½ years I’ve realized that I need to plan about three full days to find and write all of the articles needed each month. Those days are long but fulfilling.

The lady who does the layout of the paper lives in Pierce, NE. I e-mail her the articles as I find them, and then she does the layout of the articles and ads. She also finds the graphics that go with the articles. I’ve tried to find graphics but I’m not very good at it; Jennifer always finds ones that are perfect for the articles.

I think I’ve found all the articles needed to fill the May issue of the Nebraska Family Times, and Jennifer is in the midst of putting everything together and laying it out. She will let me know if she needs more articles to fill the space given, but I usually send her a few extra just to be sure. Tonight or early tomorrow she will e-mail me the layout to proofread. I’m always excited as I wait for the file to open; how will everything look all put together as it will look in the paper? I proofread the articles and make sure that I’ve remembered to include the names and contact information for authors. Then I give Jennifer the “OK” to send it—again via e-mail—to the Wayne Herald, where it will be printed next week.

The paper isn’t quite done as I’m waiting to hear from Jennifer…keep a look-out for the May issue of the Nebraska Family Times next week! If you would like a FREE sample copy, or know someone who would, please e-mail shelly@shellyburke.net with the address you’d like it sent to.

“Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.” Proverbs 16:3

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Check there for my post titled "Some Days I just want to Quit"

A to Z Blogging Challenge "Peace"

"Peace"

“In peace I will both lie down and sleep; for You alone, O Lord, make me dwell in safety.”

            Psalm 4:8

Does this ever happen to you? You go to bed, ready to sleep…and as soon as you turn off the light you begin to worry, fret, relive the negative parts of the day, worry some more, go over and over things you said and did, things you should have said and done, things you shouldn’t have said or done…

David, the writer of this Psalm, certainly had reason to fret and worry over his actions and decisions. 

• Saul, the king of Israel, became jealous and was trying to kill David (1 Sam. 19).
•  David and his men came back from a battle and found that their wives and children had been captured  (1 Sam. 30).
• There was fighting between the houses of Saul and David (2 Sam. 3). 
• He had committed adultery with Bathsheba and when she became pregnant David schemed to have Uriah, her husband, killed so that he and Bathsheba could marry and the adultery wouldn’t be discovered. As a result, the prophet Nathan told David that his son would die (2 Samuel 11). 
• David’s own son, Absalom, was plotting to kill him (2 Sam. 14) 

With all of this going on in his life, it’s amazing David got any sleep at all! But clearly he knew that God was faithful, had forgiven him, and would keep him safe, despite his sins. He was not able to only lie down, but to sleep, despite the turmoil in his life. And in Psalm 3:5 David says, “I will wake again, because the Lord sustains me.”  He is confident that he will not just lie down and sleep, but that he will wake again. .

When you lie down tonight, ask for forgiveness for your sins. Then you can sleep in peace, knowing that the Lord loves you, forgives you, and will sustain and keep you safe through the night.  

Lord, please let me feel Your presence tonight as I lie down to sleep. Give me the reassurance that you will keep me in safety and sustain me. Thank you! Amen.

I’m also blogging at Home is Where the Mom Is .

Today’s post will help you to “Prepare for Sick Days” for

yourself and/or your kids.